ADJUSTING TO SUCCESS
While Hicks enjoys the perks of her newfound fame, she is still adjusting to the time crunch associated with starring on a hit weekly TV show. Most of all, she's faced the challenge of balancing the demands of work and the needs of her family - particulary her daughter's. At first, "Catie and I were having a horrible time separating," Hicks remembers. "It was weird for her. Until then, I had been a partially working, full-time mom." And despite her positive relationships with the cast, she admits, "I was crabby, thinking 'Why am I spending time with these kids, when I have a real kid at home who's dying to be with me?'"
Over time, the two have created solutions that help them to be flexible and to make the most of their time together. Because Catie's school is close to the Santa Monica set and Hicks works irregular hours, they often can get together during the day. "Whenever there's down time, we visit," Hicks says. "I'll go see her or she'll come to me."
Co-star Collins occasionally observes Hicks' confilct on the set. "When you're a parent and you're close to wrapping and it's just before three o'clock," he says, "you think, 'If we finish this scene in the next 10 minutes, I can change and pick up my kids at school!' I can see that look on Catherine's face. And then three o'clock goes by. And dinner goes by. But she's too professional to say anything to anybody."MAKING TIME FOR PRIORITIES
Hicks has learned to get creative in using even small snippets of free time to handle business and steal time for herself. During her drive to the set, she checks in with her mother on the phone, or takes care of other family duties. Hicks is also making the most of every available second work. "Part of the life on this set," says Collins, "is seeing Catherine on her portable phone, walking in for a take. They're literally saying 'Speed. Scene 48.' And she's whispering, 'OK, I gotta go!' She's managing a household from here and, God love her, that's incredably hard to do."
When she's not on the set, Hicks' little oasis of calm includes a daily 20-minute "quickie Mass" after dropping Catie at school. "Or when I'm at my mom's and Catie's playing with the girls next door - then it's peaceful. Or maybe I'll go to lunch and read The New York Times."
And just as her TV counterpart is devoted to her husband, so too is Hicks. She and Yagher make a point of reviving the romance that brought them together more than a decade ago. "We play our Frank Sinatra songs," she says. "We look at pictures." And today they share one of the strongest bonds of all - parenthood. "We look at our daughter and feel connected," she says.
During 7th Heaven's three-month filming hiatus, Hicks spends extra time with the other moms at Catie's Catholic school - who have inspired her to be as active as possible in Catie's school life. "The other mothers volunteer for everything," she says. "They run the Brownie meetings, they do everything Annie Camden does. As a result, their kids are doing really well academically. Even in first grade, the pattern is set." And even when 7th Heaven is filming, "It seems as if I'm at the school every spare minute. I'm determined, for my daughter's sake, to be as participatory as I can, even with the demands of my job."
Hicks also is planning to work with Catholic Relief Services as an extension of her faith, hoping to spread the message of its work on behalf of the needy around the world. "They have Mother Teresas everywhere," she says. "Paul Newman donates his proceeds to them and he's not even Catholic. So I'm talking with them to see how I can help." Her decision to reach out doesn't surprise anyone who knows her. "Catherine is a lifetime, never-been-lapsed Catholic who really practices her faith." says Collins. "She never proselytizes and she's not in anyone's face, but it's a very, very deep part of who she is."
At the moment, Hicks relishes the time spent with her family. "We make sure we put Catie on her own stage," she says. "She plays baseball and soccer and we go to all her practices. At night we read and I tuck her in, and in the morning, I make her breakfast and lunch - peanut butter and jelly the way she likes it, or tuna salad that's moist enough." Sounds a lot like Annie Camden. And so not Hollywood.